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		<title>Must&#8230; resist&#8230; retrospective&#8230; new year&#8217;s&#8230; post&#8230; Ah, screw it.</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 03 Jan 2010 12:06:44 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>Ok, I held out for three days. Maybe that&#8217;s a record of some kind.</p>
<p>So what have we learned in 2009, Christine?</p>
<p>Well, Non-specific Writing-Persona Addressee, we&#8217;ve learned many lessons in the past year. In no specific order whatsoever:</p>

Craft beer is an exciting and rewarding hobby. It&#8217;s also not as difficult to get involved as one might [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Ok, I held out for three days. Maybe that&#8217;s a record of some kind.</p>
<p>So what have we learned in 2009, Christine?</p>
<p>Well, Non-specific Writing-Persona Addressee, we&#8217;ve learned many lessons in the past year. In no specific order whatsoever:</p>
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<li><strong>Craft beer is an exciting and rewarding hobby.</strong> It&#8217;s also not as difficult to get involved as one might think.</li>
<li><strong>Bi-polar disorder is not to be taken lightly. </strong>At the very least, people with bi-polar disorder should be monitored by a counselor and have access to an M.D. psychiatrist when/if necessary. Otherwise, bi-polar patients can find their relationships, financial status, and general well-being rotating rapidly counter clockwise into the giant metaphorical bowl-drain waterway of life. Trust me.</li>
<li><strong>Get some exercise.</strong> Even if it&#8217;s just a little bit. Every other day is good, and if you can get outside, so much the better.</li>
<li><strong>Beware of those who are so busy pointing out your faults they fail to recognize their own.</strong> They probably aren&#8217;t your friends. I can&#8217;t believe I&#8217;m doing this, but &#8230; (Matthew 7:3). And yes, it&#8217;s slightly out of context to serve my own purposes. When do you ever see a bible quotation that isn&#8217;t?</li>
<li><strong>Some people are mostly nice, but that doesn&#8217;t mean they won&#8217;t try to manipulate you.</strong> Be nice back, but don&#8217;t let them piss you off so much you cry. It shortens your life, and life is pretty short as it is.</li>
<li><strong>Stop drinking so much, eating so much, and eating so many things that are bad for you.</strong> Most of the time, but not all of the time&#8230; heheheh. But yes, your mother is right, you&#8217;ll feel better.</li>
<li><strong>If at all possible, get a cat or a dog.</strong> Why a cat or a dog? Exotics, such as birds and ferrets (hee hee!) cannot leave their cages and choose to hang out with you. Having a critter come and sit with you can sometimes mean the difference between the end of a shitty day and the end of a shitty day with a cat or a dog sitting next to you. The difference here seems infinitesimal, but it isn&#8217;t. Again, just trust me.</li>
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<p>And so, Christine what do you plan to do about it in 2010?</p>
<p>Non-specific Writing-Persona Addressee, let me tell you, it&#8217;s going to be a shorter list with longer asides:</p>
<ul>
<li><strong>Work on reducing clutter.</strong> Clutter isn&#8217;t that fabulous, and who really needs all this crap anyway? I can&#8217;t believe that my clutter level after Katrina (almost nil) and my clutter level now (don&#8217;t get me started) belong to the same person. Let&#8217;s see what we can do about it. Brain clutter is included here as well as physical clutter.</li>
<li><strong>Become more involved in bi-polar activism.</strong> I don&#8217;t know if &#8220;activism&#8221; is the right word, here, but I want to do something else besides being open about my bi-polar disorder. Oh, you noticed? Well, yes it&#8217;s true that I am very open and try to be matter-of-fact about the whole issue, because I&#8217;m trying as an individual to help reduce the stigma under which people with mood disorders (and other mental illnesses) labor. Why? Because I think it&#8217;s stupid, and it prevents people who really need help from seeking it out. Also, I think the level of awareness regarding mental health patients and what they go through needs to be raised. Once I feel more balanced and healthy, I plan to start volunteering or get involved with a group or organization which propagates these same beliefs.</li>
<li><strong>Brew more beer whenever possible.</strong></li>
<li><strong>Try to think a bit more before opening my big mouth. </strong>Yeah, this is about as likely as Halley&#8217;s Comet returning before 2061, but I figure I can give it a shot.</li>
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<p>So there you have it, kids. Please ensure that the car has come to a complete stop before exiting the ride. Also, for those of you reading via Facebook, MySpace, or LiveJournal, please click &#8220;view original post&#8221; before commenting if at all possible. That would rock. May you and yours enjoy a prosperous new year, and let&#8217;s try not to take ourselves too seriously this time around.</p>
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		<title>Sentimental Slob</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 26 May 2006 03:52:08 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>midnightferret</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>I admit it.  I am a sentimental slob.  I have always had a hard time letting go of things that were once pleasant, or loving or secure: relationships, situations, cars&#8230;</p>
<p>My worst vice in this department: hanging on to people.  The hardest relationship lesson I ever had to learn was that some people [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I admit it.  I am a sentimental slob.  I have always had a hard time letting go of things that were once pleasant, or loving or secure: relationships, situations, cars&#8230;</p>
<p>My worst vice in this department: hanging on to people.  The hardest relationship lesson I ever had to learn was that some people move on even when others who care about them don&#8217;t.  Sometimes people I cared about moved on and didn&#8217;t have the good grace to let me in on it, but that&#8217;s probably a different story.<br />
Recently, I&#8217;ve had conversations that both confirmed my tendencies to remain attached and also revealed their folly, respectively.  The first, on New Years&#8217; Eve, was with my former roommate at <a title="Lousiana School for Math, Science, and the Arts" target="_blank" href="http://www.lsmsa.edu"><a target="_blank" href="http://www.lsmsa.edu">LSMSA</a></a>, <a title="Margaret's Blog" href="http://blue-hurricane.livejournal.com/"><a target="_blank" href="http://blue-hurricane.livejournal.com">Margaret</a></a>.  We didn&#8217;t talk about this subject per se, but I had a great time with her, and it sort of reaffirmed my faith in myself, I guess.  Which is what spending time with a friend should do!  <a target="_blank" href="http://blue-hurricane.livejournal.com">Margaret</a> is really fabulously cool and intelligent.  She&#8217;s working on an M.D. Ph.D. (almost done!) and all she really did was talk to me as an equal, if that makes sense.  The holidays this year were kind of horrible for me.  <a target="_blank" href="http://www.ambardia.com">James</a> was in New Orleans working on a tugboat because we were having a terrible time finding jobs.  I would link to a previous article, but the hackers got that one!  Anyrate, just having a decent, interesting conversation with someone who wasn&#8217;t hellbent on impressing or insulting me was a very healing thing.  Monroe is sort of, um, deserty in the decent conversation department.</p>
<p>The second conversation I had a few weeks ago.  It was with a person who shall remain nameless.  We had had a falling out about the time I met my husband.   This person seemed to want to resume our relationship, but they also seemed to think I was, well, deluded and stupid.  In any case, I was not spoken to as an equal, by any means, which is sort of ironic, because um, well, just think about it.  Pot, kettle, that sort of thing.  A lot of people who know me know I am many things, but hopefully they know I am very self aware.  Sometimes bordering on self-obsessed&#8230;  but that&#8217;s a different story as well.</p>
<p>We color things with memory probably more than we should, but it&#8217;s the price we pay for being sentient.  It&#8217;s good for creativity:  one of the best things to do when you&#8217;re trying to start writing is to write about your first memory, or write about your childhood.  I have learned that it&#8217;s important to let go when something is over, but I have also learned that I don&#8217;t want to let the good stuff go without a fight.  I have had to let go of good friends as well as people who refused to realize that I had grown and changed in some way.  Still, I tried to keep the good friends:  I contacted them repeatedly and made overtures of friendship and desire for renewed contact if things had fallen off a bit due to distance.  Some of them just chose to go away, and that&#8217;s cool, that&#8217;s their choice.  What I&#8217;m going for here is simply to encourage you to go ahead and call your roommate from college you were so close to once, or your friend you said you would call back sometime last year but never got around to it.  You have at least a fifty percent chance that they will be happy to hear from you.</p>
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